Need an older woman to make my fantasy come true.

I am a 22 year old student. I have always wnated to be with an older woman. If you are interested please let get ahold of me. I live in the mid west but i travel often.

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what do you mean?

Oh gesh ....

Ok, feel compelled to ask ... so what IS your fantasy ??? (I know, I might be sorry, but what the hey...)

Princessdy

Well, where do I start? Its not so much a fantasy as it is an attraction. Older woman just turn me on. It all started when I was around eight years old. I was swimming with my friend and his mom. She was a beautiful woman with an amazing body. When she jumped in the water her bathing suit became see throught. That was the first time I had ever seen a real womans nipple and breast in person. I will never forget her large beautiful breasts.
I also think its more of the expierence factor that i find myself so attracted to. older women just seem to know what they wnat, and they have a certain sex appeal about them that I love.

Originally posted by phisher5
I also think its more of the expierence factor that i find myself so attracted to. older women just seem to know what they wnat, and they have a certain sex appeal about them that I love.

I actually have to agree with you there bro. :)
Older women are the jewels of life! ;)


joe

Hi,
Haven't been at this site for a long time - have had too much stuff going on.

I'm still with the same much younger man after nearly 4 years. He's 23 now and has changed a lot. I've changed a lot too because my own life has been full of trials, pain and unhappiness in that time - some of it caused by him, but most of it just because life can be hard.

It's been rough from time to time being with someone more than 20 years younger, with occasional serious disagreements but it's love so it's worth going through the tough times.

What's with the "fantasy" thing?

Age gap relationships can be so interesting, and enriching, but entering into another person's life needs some thinking about first.

I can understand your "fantasy" desire in one way, but you see, if you meet a REAL older women she has real concerns, experience and ideas. And women do like to talk (my god, how they talk!), and they want to have their thoughts and their own reality acknowledged. The "fantasy" thing denies the other person's reality and their needs to be "seen", to be "heard" for who they really are.

But I remember thinking like that myself when I was around 20, 21 years old. It caused a lot of trouble because I hurt people in pursuing various fantasies. My own imagination overlaid on real people did not lead to happiness for anyone, and I think showed my own immaturity and lack of respect for other people.

I just can't do the "fantasy" thing about people anymore. And really, people are so much more interesting if you open your eyes and ears wide and start listening. Especially to people from a different culture, different country, different age group or ethnic group.

I do think you show some discernment in being interested in older women, at any rate. It's such a stimulating relationship, if there is love and respect between the lovers.

I never stop learning from my man - I find him fascinating, the different way he thinks and what I learn about his friends and his different world.

.... I just reread this and hope I did not get too critical. I don't want to discourage you from meeting older women and possibly forming friendships. I'm just concerned about damage that might result.

It's good to discuss these things at any rate.

Um, I'd better stop yacking on now....

Cheers
Helen
Sydney, Australia

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Helen, I read your post, and you are such a needed example here. You have a long term relationship with a younger man, and have probably experienced the joys and the difficulties of it. Your experience is precious and we all could learn from you. I hope you came to stay with us, and that you will post more.
Hugs,
Maria

Nice to hear from you.

I dropped in on my way home to see if there were any replies to my posts (I posted two on the same day).

I'm not sure how much time i can devote to posts to this site.

I have just got my motorbike licence back (was off the bike for five months after i came back from a pre-Xmas vacation in Ventura CA). Bike riding takes lots of time, and i want to do off-road dirt riding type stuff.

I have a world of trouble to deal with at work - i'm not even allowed to talk about it, for legal reasons.

I'm trying to help a bunch of workmates who are going to pieces because of all the stress (see above).

Learning ice skating - well, that's relaxing, anyway.

My friends are starting to moan about not getting enough attention, and my YM was on the phone earlier, moaning coz he's not getting enough attention either - too much stuff going on.

But anyway Maria, I can recommend an affair/ relationship with a younger man for any older woman who is open-minded, likes new experiences and has a sense of humour. You have to be tolerant, understanding, and be prepared to be hissed at in the street, have miserable middle aged women looking daggers at you across that ritzy restaurant where you and your YM have gone out for a romantic dinner etc etc etc. Don't be surprised if family and relatives can't cope. Whatever!

Also be prepared to be dumped unceremoniously at any moment, to be criticised when you thought everything was going so well, and then experience the YM wanting you back but not knowing how to apologise, say "I'm sorry" or anything.

Really, it's hard work sometimes.

Anyway, must go home and feed the cats and do all those boring domestic things.

Best wishes and love to you -
oh, and if Mr "Fulfill My Fantasy" wants to post further, I would be pleased to debate with him.

Cheers
Helen

Originally posted by helen
I have just got my motorbike licence back


Hi Helen. I'm one of the more new arrivals to ageless.
It's cool that you motorbike.
I haven't ridden one in ages and sometimes miss it- especially when it's a nice warm sunny day, or if I see an old '83 Yamaha RD350 passing by. Worse if it's both at the same time. :)


Also be prepared to be dumped unceremoniously at any moment, to be criticised when you thought everything was going so well, and then experience the YM wanting you back but not knowing how to apologise, say "I'm sorry" or anything.


Ouch... Is that soley a YM-related thing?
How does one prepare for it?

Anyway, sorry to hear about your job and stuff.
Hope it get's better.

Richard

yeah, motorbikes are good.

i was practising last weekend, and didn't drop the bike at all!

i have no idea about relationships anymore! there are no rules!!!

who knows about people, they're all so weird.

cheers
helen sydney australia