Questions!!!!!

I just wanted to say even thou I have my other issues w/ my failing marriage. That I truely love my OM. He treats me as no other man has. He has even said to me that he doesn't deserve me b/c I am so beautiful, sweet, & caring. He says why do you want an old fart like me. And then I tell him how kind, handsome, charming, sweet, loving, & totally wonderful he is. We both say we were made for each other, I truely feel that way. Surprisingly he looks kind of similar to my father, & when I was 3 I made the comment that I was going to marry my Daddy. My Mother of course told me I couldn't b/c he was my Father. But I wonder if I was seeing my OM from a past life maybe? My OM tells me that I am the exact image of the Blonde he has been dreaming of his entire life. And I ask him if he's just saying that. And he says "NO!! I really mean it, you are the woman for me, I want to spend the rest of my life w/ you!!" We talk on the phone daily & nightly, chat on the computer nightly, play cards together nightly, we literally spend more time together than w/ our spouses. We tell each other how much we love each other all the time. And he even wants 2 have a cyber marriage.
Question: Are we crazy? Since we both have our current prediciments w/ our marriages are we doomed for failure? Or do you think we'll make it? Also am I a naive fool?