First Love - do you remember?

Who was he/she? Did it stay platonic? How old were you?

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We never forget our first love. It's pure, it happens sometimes at an age when we have no clue of what love is. But it stays in our memory as our first love anyway.

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This thread is dedicated to my friend Shewolf, who will never stop being romantic...

Maria,

I remember mine like it was yesterday! I was 21-22 at that time and she was 46. I met her at a bartending school and we went out for two short months. We watched "Independence Day" with Will Smith and I also helped her with her resume. It did not work out in the long run because of the age difference. She made me feel like I am the luckiest man to be with her. She also love to do ball room dancing too. She was a saggitarius. Very honest and open with me. There were no games with my relationship with her. Everything was str8 forward communication. I did not regret having a short term relationship with her because it lead me to this website years later. I know that I am not alone in this type of relationship because I seen people change of the years.

AHHHHH yuppers...think EVERYONE will remember. I was in HS and was cheering at a ballgame and a guy 'from the rival' team asked me out...i WAS A TRAITOR:D Went out with this guy until i was a freshman in college...my sister went to his college and came back to say she saw him WITH ANOTHER GIRL....how DARE he=) He did come around again after graduation, but i blew him off=). Funny thing is...my ex-husband is an administrator at one of the junior high's here in town and a guy with exactly the same name became an administrator there....My ex actually called and said...guess who im working with;) ...but not the same guy.( I did drive out and look through his office window just to make for SURE tho!);) Saw him about a year ago and he was BALD...hehe, got a lil laugh out over that one=), but he'll ALWAYS hold a special place...think the FIRST always does=).

http://www.smilies.org/basesmilies3/luvlove.gif My first love happened when I was 14.

He was a tall, dark haired Argentinean, whose father was coaching the big soccer team of Santos. We were in the first year of High School, and I fell in love first with his accent, and then with his ability to make me laugh.

We took the vaccine for meningitis vaccination campaign together in 1985. In May that year, the quarterly moon lodged a star in its curve.

http://www.smilies.org/basesmilies3/Hideo love.gif Everybody knew we fancied each other, but we never talked about it until the day he announced that his family was going back to his place, Rosario, in Argentina. http://www.smilies.org/basesmilies3/teardrop.gif We cried together and promised that on his 18th birthday, he would come back to marry me. We never kissed, only held hands.http://www.smilies.org/basesmilies3/1053181156.gif

For 2 years I waited for him, wrote to him everyday, sent him some of my hair, he sent me his (I still have it) but then I decided to go out with a boy and wrote to him communicating my decision. He never wrote back. I broke his heart.http://www.smilies.org/basesmilies3/1053181120.gif

Some time ago I found his name on the Argentinean phone directory and also in the ICQ list. But I would never have the courage to contact him.http://www.smilies.org/basesmilies3/1049313705.gif

Mariel.....I think u should contact him...what the heck...if u KNOW...just to say HEY! Maybe i should go to the truth or dare thread here=):D

Singalou, I would never have the courage, I broke his heart! . I still feel guilty today, 29 years later...http://www.smilies.org/basesmilies3/tristounet.gif

PLEASE, HOW SWEET, YOU NEVER KNOW MARIA!!!!..


My first love was when I was in 5th grade. His name was Mark. He was a new kid in school....Had dirty wiry blonde hair and wore these big thick glasses....Had GREAT sense of humor and aggravated the heck out of me like boys do at that age if they like girls. We would "play chase" and he made up a rule that if you got caught, you had to hold hands, so he would only chase me and I would let him catch me!

We liked each other through 5th grade to high school, then kind of drifted apart about 10th grade. That wiry thick-glassed kid became a hunk one summer that year and got a HUGE head and didn't have time for me, was too busy fighting off lets say the ones who were easier??? Now and then we would go out when he came back down to earth, and he was that same sweet kid, but he was a little too arrogant for me most of the time.....

I moved away after high school and never came home to live again until recently (home town that is ).....he is married now and lives not far from me.

At our 5-year hs reunion, which I did not attend, I was told he was looking for me and had changed his attitude, but I was married then... My niece taught one of his children in school and she said that every year she saw him, he would ask about me and what ever happened to me, was I happy, did I have kids? Etc....... He told a friend once to tell me that he would never forget our childhood years.

I think you make a bond in childhood love that you never forget.

Aaaaaaaaaaaah My first love :) How could I ever forget??? It was summertime an I was just 15 :)

Beautiful, beautiful creature .......... I remember the very first time I set eyes on u, it was outside the local cafe, I was stopped in my tracks, never had I seen such a gorgeous sight.

Took me weeks to track u down, how I longed to see u again..... Finally I caught up with u at the local beach, u were racing in the sand :D ........ The roar of ur 1000cc engine was music to my ears .......... Doing my best to look appealing, I strolled toward u, my eyes taking in ur intense black bodywork, the heady smell of ur hot engine drawing me closer ..........

We were not together long, a brief summer's dream, wonderful evenings spent racing through country lanes......... I have never forgotten u tho :) U were the most beautiful Norton Commando I ever saw ....... I am just sorry that I cannot remember anything about the guy that owned u :(

First love? Nope, not me! Had too many of 'em!!! http://www.extreme-athlete.com/forums/images/smilies/undecided.gif

Well let me give you some background info first for elementary school I went to a private on and was with the same group of kids all the way from Pre-k to the sixth grade and they always sat us in the class room in Alphabetical order so the girl I liked always sat behind me her name is Jennifer and around the 5th grade puberty started to kick in and my voice started to screech in class while i was reading when this happen all thw class would laugh at me except Jennifer she would just pat me on the back and tell me it was ok and when the bell rang she always gave me lil notes saying how mean everyone was to laugh me but anyway on to six grade. IN six grade we became real good friends all the boys use to laugh at me becasue i woulsd eat lunch and do group workwith a girl then came graduation day the last day some of us would ever see each other again, after we got our certifcated we all headed back to the class room to say our goodbyes and then Jennifer came to me crying saying how much she was gonna miss me and then all of a sudden we kissed and promised to call each other every week, I will never forget Jennifer becasue she was the first girl that made my heart skip beats and and the 1st girl that gave me butterflies in my stomach

I was 15, he was 16. It was pretty intense. I was 100% convinced that no one else in the world had ever, ever, EVER felt that way before! I was sure we would get married. We broke up after a year and a half. I still wonder what that guy's up to...

All love stories are cute. I like Mark's story. I don't know why, I had the impression that the boy he was at that time, was the one telling us his story.

Before falling in love my Argentinean, at the tender age of 6 I fell one day in love (ok, so he was the first) with the blond boy next door who threw some mud on me when we were playing in the street. His name was Claudio. He threw the mud on me because he was also in love with me, you all know how it works when we are 6.
Some evenings he would come to my veranda and watch the fireflies with me, or look at the sky.

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Did you say this happened in 1985? Then from then to now would be 18 years, not 29!

Yeah, I can remember a few also, I might comment about them later. As I write this I am at a public library with a computer with a time limit on it.

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I was 14, so it was in the beginning of 1975! Thanks, Rainbowstew!

And yes, tell us about your first love...http://www.smilies.org/basesmilies3/1034169915.gif

I was 17, and knew a woman who was 24. She and I shared an intellectual interest in some literature which she introduced me to. She was very attractive, and we enjoyed talking about it and having higher-level intellectual discussions. She was having problems with her husband, and he worked at night, so I would call her at night and we would have clandestine late-night conversations, as well as seeing each other at other times. One night, we agreed to meet somewhere, and we were getting pretty steamed up for each other, and she asked me "Do you want to kiss me?" and we proceeded to have a very memorable smooching session. It was my first french kiss, actually the first time I ever kissed a woman in a sexual/romantic way. It never did lead to anything further than that, but I definitely had strong feelings for her. I remember thinking "how can I be doing this! She is older than me!" but my desires overcame that. I don't know whether it would have worked for us to get seriously involved with each other or not - I can't claim to have been a shining example of maturity at that point, and I probably wouldn't have made a good permanent match for her, at that point, and if we had actually done anything it could have been a scandal - see, she was one of the teachers in my high school, and it was a small town - although I had fantasies of being with her permanently, somehow, some way. But that was my first romantic interaction where I actually felt connected with somebody, and she was also an older woman, and while it did not turn out the way I would have liked, nevertheless it was part of my life and I suppose I could say it was a learning experience.

Believe it or not, I have never really told anybody about this before, and there are some details I have not included, because I would just as soon not hear any discussions about it from anybody back in my home town if they should happen to read this. (Although I wouldn't say it would be impossible for somebody to figure it out just from what I have said.)

my first 'love' or 'infatuation' or whatever you want to call it...was great. I think maybe one of the best till even now. We were completely different and yet hit it off. I dont think she even liked me at first but i grew on here like a weed. :D Then she broke my heart but that was probably good or else i might have failed out of school...ah women, can't live with them, can't live without them...:confused:

Originally posted by youngguy914
...ah women, can't live with them, can't live without them...:confused:


Or as I like to put it, "women, you can't live with'em, and you can't shoot'em!" :D


joe