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hi there to all ............. darn it , i posted in the wrong side ..............but here goes..........is it possible for a woman to love 2 guys ?? any advice please.........

It's possible but not easy.

Yes, Mrs. Robinson, I completely agree.

I agree with them. (see above posts)

Just saw this Mika, how are you doing?

Yes it is possible, its totally hard though, and it gets confusing, and you may lose both of them in the end, or again you may get the one who really really loves you in the end.

thank u all who replied.......... yez they both love me, both have proposed marriage. (( and i love them , each has speacial qualities )
im the one who is putting a hold on thingz, itz not easy ,and yez i agree,can drive one to tears. of those ive cried plenty, and madness !!
both are wonderful guyz, one is italian,the other is portoguse.
i have actually come to a point where ive weighd the pros and cons, bad vs ugly, call it what u like , but i have in my heart chosen rui, the portoguese guy. fabio ( the italian ) knows i have but has sworn blind that he will wait forever if need be. never is a long time i told him, but he is determined. i did not want tfor this to happen , it just did. i just wish my heart and mind could work together for a change. they are both 31 yrs old.

thankz again for all the advice .......... mika

Originally posted by sparkz
hi there to all ............. darn it , i posted in the wrong side ..............but here goes..........is it possible for a woman to love 2 guys ?? any advice please.........
Well hello there sparkz,
Sure you can love two guys. Me and someone else. i dont mind. :D

Do mind sharing why one was chosen vs. the other? How long have you been dating each of them?
I once had that delimea and chose the one that fought the hardes and said the most romantic things. I think I chose the wrong one unfortunately. :)

Sparkz,

Please forgive me for bringing this up, but your last post stuck in my mind like a bad horror flick, and I cannot sit here and say nothing. The post you made where these two were literally fighting over you was very disturbing to me (and others). It was back in March and Rui had busted up in your home with a gun.

I realize love is blind and all too forgiving, BUT it really sounds like you are being pulled between a control freak (Rui) and loving man (Fabio). I am not judging here, just concerned for you.

Please step back from *both* guys and get some breathing room. Then ask yourself WHO is the most respectful to you? WHICH ONE cares more for you than himself? WHAT happens when one WINS and the other loses? Makes choices for your hapiness, sanity and wellbeing.... not because someone is relentless in possessing you....but because their heart is full of selfless love for you.

Ok, I am sure I just let the cat out of the bag on this. Just be careful with your choices. You are absolutely too gorgeous to "settle" for anything. {{hugs}}

Gypsy~

Hey Sparkz,
I've wondered this same thing. I mean, if you have room in your heart to love two children, two parents, two dogs, two cats or however many there are...can't you love two men? I think its possible, i'm even sure it is, but the world or society or somebody says we have to choose just one ;) . I understand what you mean about liking some of the qualities of one and some of the other. Too bad you cant just somehow squish them into one perfect guy huh? I guess the bottom line is...follow your heart, or your gut. Good luck!!

Southerngal