klueless
07-19-2003, 02:21 AM
It was definitely a coincidence that I find myself here but I also believe everything happens for a reason.
I am a 39 year old guy who is nuts about a 19 year old girl. I have always considered the commonsense approach to be the best but I spend too much time thinking about her to let this go.
I am very confused and I don't know what to do.
I am single and have been for a while (by choice) and this has not happened to me in a very long time. what should I do ?
abaconw
07-20-2003, 02:46 PM
Good advice, Danika, but I might add to start off with something informal like coffee or something similar before an actual "Date" if possible. That may give an indication right there if there is a posibility and also provide insite as to where the first date should be, whether a sports event, a movie, or a theater production of one kind or another for example.
EMCAD80
07-24-2003, 10:56 AM
Klueless...
It's rough and the younger women of this site know the hardships our OM go through with concerns of the age gap. D still tells me (actually he told me this again last night) that I THINK I know how I feel. Uh...ok. I forget that he can read my mind http://images.bravenet.com/common/images/smilies/7_mad.gif So, to add my two cents in...you can't fight the chemistry that may be there. Go with it, she's all grown up, she can think on her own and make her own choices...please, please, please don't tell her that she needs to date BOYS her own age. It's truly an uncomfortable feeling and (at least for me) makes me feel kinda of crappy. Just go with the flow, take it day by day and see what developes from there.
Wishin' You The Best
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