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what is the most romantic moment your YM or OW has given you?

hunny
08-09-2003, 09:15 PM
My most romantic moment was when I was playing The Savage Garden CD, and I liked this danceable song, but the slow song, TRULY, MADLY, DEEPLY came on.

My YM suddenly pulled the car into a parking lot and pulled me out. I protested at first cause I was getting wet.

He played the song from the car stereo. Then he took me into his arms, and we danced slowly in the rain.

That wet, parking lot dance, was the most romantic moment in my life. I remember my YM's warm body pressed against mine as the cool rain droplets fell on me.

Joe
08-09-2003, 10:30 PM
I bet that wasn't the only thing getting wet! :D

Polly
08-10-2003, 01:51 PM
Robin's and my song is "What You Give" by Tesla. When we first started dating, it was playing one night while we were out, and it was our first slow dance together.

July 31st, we celebrated four years together. We went out to dinner and then went and played some pool, and while we were playing, the song came on! Robin promptly laid down his stick, took me in his arms, and slow-danced with me. There was no one else in the pool room, just us. He squeezed me a few times while we danced and whispered "I love you." I just closed my eyes and literally soaked him in, his scent, his soft hair, his strong hold, I was like, "four years, and I'm in Heaven!" I later found out he played the song while I was in the ladies room! :D Anyway, that is a romantic moment that stands out in my mind.

Polly
08-10-2003, 09:07 PM
I think it's extremely romantic, Captain! It shows dedication and closeness that you two have.

Joe
08-10-2003, 10:09 PM
My heart melted when Peachy had bought me a six pack of Michelob Ultra!

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Adri
08-10-2003, 10:14 PM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Joe
[B]My heart melted when Peachy had bought me a six pack of Michelob Ultra!

Whats that???

:confused:

southerngal
08-10-2003, 10:26 PM
Awwww, these stories are so sweet - I love them all. And keep em coming!!

Adri - Micelob is beer ;)

And Joe - I posted this on another thread to Peachy. I have a new name for you, its "gif-ted" :p I swear you can come up with the best stuff!!

Southerngal

Adri
08-10-2003, 10:34 PM
Originally posted by southerngal
Awwww, these stories are so sweet - I love them all. And keep em coming!!

Adri - Micelob is beer ;)

Southerngal

Thanks Southern

Joe
08-11-2003, 01:07 AM
Thanks so much Southerngal!!! :D I owe you one girl!!!


joe

Peachy
08-11-2003, 12:16 PM
Originally posted by Joe
My heart melted when Peachy had bought me a six pack of Michelob Ultra!

http://pages.prodigy.net/rogerlori1/emoticons/1luvu.gif

Gee, Sugar, if that's all it takes, I'll keep 'um coming!

PinkCat
08-11-2003, 12:37 PM
Joe and Peachy, you guys crack me up!

My bf has done sooo many really romantic things for me. Probably the sweetest thing he's ever done for me is write me this unbelievably romantic poem. He's not not the type of guy whom you would normally expect to do that sort of thing; he's more of a "guy's guy", really into sports and action movies, that kind of thing. Which is why it's even more special to me that he wrote that poem, the most beautiful thing anyone has ever written for me. It's my most treasured possession. I absolutely love it.

Peachy
08-11-2003, 07:24 PM
The most romantic thing . . . hmmmmmmm . . . that would have to be, without a doubt, the birthday cake Joe made for me. No guy EVER has done that for me and I will never forget that he did.

Thank you, Sugar . . . http://pages.prodigy.net/rogerlori1/emoticons/muah.gif

Joe
08-11-2003, 11:02 PM
Anytime Peachy Pocket!!! ;)

Cindy
08-25-2003, 01:02 AM
Greg and I had been seeing each other in secret for several months. We had agreed to a discreet, sexual relationship and it was very out of character for me. Needless to say I really couldn't handle a no-strings attached sexual relationship and began falling in love. I was miserable and too unsure to let him know. I was also afraid it would scare him away if he knew that this older woman was in love. So I remained silent.

We met January 30, and by end May I had decided I couldn't continue and decided to let things go. I was too chicken to made a major departure so I just sort of reduced my availability.

June 15 or so, Greg came over again. I remained cool and he seemed a bit different. The next morning he said something about a party and how odd it would be if we went together. I was shocked and hurt that he would feel odd about us (even though techinically there was no us). But I couldn't say anything because I had never admitted being in love. I became visibly upset and turned to leave abruptly. He grabbed me, pulled me back in his arm and asked me why I was so upset. I tried to pull away but he wouldn't let me go and I was unable to answer him. I was so ridiculously petrified of being rejected.

I was unable to look in his eyes, I was absolutely trembling. He kept asking me why I was so upset and why I wasn't able to talk to him. He would not release his hold on me. We had been standing and after some time, he sat on a stool with me on his lap, still not releasing his hold. We stayed that way for an hour or so.

Looking back I realize that he was as afraid of this as me and that moment in time was our turning point.

He asked if I had feelings for him. I finally answered him. He told me that he had feelings for me too and that they had grown beyond a casual relationship.

So that is my romantic moment. Of course we continue to have romantic moments but that day, that morning, stands out in my mind. Truly, the sparking romance has given way to strains of survival and growth as with any couple regardless of ages.

I've never been lucky in love but that day turned my luck around and here we are two and a half years later, going strong. He's 33 and I am 49. I'm a mom to two little boys ages 11 and 8. Now we are trying to figure out how to get married and live together. That's another story!

Cindy

whisper
09-23-2003, 05:41 PM
My husband is chronically romantic - almost every minute of every day. I am not exaggerating. I think it might be more typical of younger guys. I don't know why it's so, but I love it and will never grow tired of it. I think that 17 years of praying finally paid off, lol.

Mina
09-23-2003, 07:36 PM
My guy certainly isnt chronically romantic :eek: I guess I just didnt pray hard enough :p but what touched me most I think was when he told me

"baby, think about stopping smoking will you, every cigarette is 5 minutes less I have with you"

Tru
09-23-2003, 08:22 PM
but I this thread keeps getting bumped up so I am pasting here too. :) Btw...Truly Madly Deeply was the first song he asked me to download after he taught me how. :) I had never heard it before and I cried when I heard it! I put the song on repeat and left it playing for 2 days...NON STOP! All day...all night! I felt like a love sick school girl again! At the age of 42!!


Thank you
for this thread and the opportunity to give a little praise to my love.

He got up early to make breakfast and when he brought it to me in bed I saw that he had made cheese toast and the cheese was melted in the shape of a heart!

One morning in a hotel, when I was still half asleep, he said he was going down to the lobby to get me some coffee and he really ran over to the McDonalds across the street and brought me back my favorite breakfast sandwich.

He writes me love poems (He is quite good)

He wrote me a song (beautiful singing voice and he plays piano!)and recorded it on his computer and sent it to me as a file! He said a few words before he started singing, telling me that whenever I feel down or lonely he wanted me to have this to play and make me smile.

He went to the store and bought me Tampons!!! A 21 year old (or any man for that matter) in the store trying to pick out tampons? How sweet is that?!!

He gave me his shirt to sleep in so I can feel close to him when we are not together.

He says "OH! Did I tell you?" I say "What???" He replies "That I love you more than words?" (Extreme song and our little phrase we say to each other)

He calls me "Angel"

He started a thread telling of his love for me! To my surprise!

To be continued......

mcgowan
09-23-2003, 08:24 PM
For me my sweetie made a wonderful dinner. We had a fire going in the fireplace with candles lit and soft music playing. After dinner we danced to Nora Jones and then gave each other a soft and tender massage. The night was so perfect that even now several months left I smile.
A close second is a small thing that she does.. She knows That I cant have milk. So she keeps Soy milk in the fridge for me. I am most definatly blessed!!!
:cool:

whisper
09-24-2003, 12:04 PM
My husband is off work today, and he just came up to me and said, "you are such a nice wife. I am going to make crepes for you today." When he makes crepes, he spends hours in the kitchen. Ofcourse, half the kitchen gets coated with a thin layer of grease while he's making them, lol, but that's o.k.

Carazy
09-24-2003, 05:16 PM
Swan and Tru, love your examples, they are really outstanding, Ithink :D

Actually, I find it quite hard to single anything out my guy does in romantic things ;) it just show in his conversation a lot, so it's hard to describe. Like last week, when I was really tired after an excessively long day and quite down, and he talked to me online and actually started singing a love song to me online to cheer me up - despite, as he says, not being able to sing ... Honestly, I couldn't care less about that, but just this gesture when I really wasn't at my best really melted my heart :D

Or irl, buying me secretly the darkest and most beautiful roses when I least expected then, lol

Or,when he was staying with me and I was getting back from work, he cooked dinner for me, with candles, wine ... the works :D and on top of that, tidied up the kitchen :o maybe other people wouldn't find it overly romantic, but it is good enough for me :D

And funnily, one of my most memorable moments is the first time we actually ever met (this was ingame in our MMORPG), when he invited me to his xping group to fight some mobs - was a fun group, a friend of mine was already in there, and me being the only girl in a group of males, there was a lot of flirting and innuendo going on, taking on some "porn talk" involving me and the worms we were fighting (in a lighthearted, funny,non-offensive way, I got to say), and Nordic starting to get quite protective about me, firstly neutralizing the "porn fantasies"of the other guys, but then secondly also - in a most chivalrous, gentleman-like manner - rebuking the overly amorous attempts of our group members :p

Needless to say, we ended this group with getting close friends very quickly, coz it was just sooo touching to see, how honorable he was behaving (there and thereafter ;) ) And interesting, that some of the joint friends we had then (independently of each other), were totally thrilled that we got "together" ingame lol, despite the age gap and the total different personalities and gaming style (I am a social gamer, he definitely is a power gamer - which, as ever hardcore gamer nows, is different worlds, lol).

Bah, gotta stop here before I start talking even more stuff that noone is going to understand, lol :p

ladyluck2004
09-25-2003, 11:32 AM
When he clean the house from top to bottom and he made dinner!! :D

mcgowan
09-25-2003, 07:48 PM
I was thinking of another instance that there was a time that my sweetie told me that I would make a wonderful father.!!!
That totally melted my heart !! That was the most romantic and sweetest thing I have ever been told!!!
:cool:

haunted
09-25-2003, 08:15 PM
I got the one on our wedding day Diamond earrings. She didn't even think about the concept of giving me anything. Unfortuneately, that was the tone for the marriage.

(I always remembered the anniversary...SHE ON THE OTHER HAND)

BearsAngel
09-26-2003, 01:24 PM
It had to be when Dave drove me to Long Island Sound and led me out to the beach. There in the moonlight with the waves whispering to us and the moon silvering the sand he got down on one knee and proposed to me.

It was my birthday and the promise of his love was the most wonderful present any woman ever received.

When he stood up I looked up at him and he was smiling so brightly that he just lit the beach. He said he was the happiest man in the world. Since I was the happiest woman, I didn't doubt him a bit. He held me and kissed me and promised to love me and take care of me forever.

When I could see through my tears I noticed that a couple had stopped to watch us. You could see that they were sharing our love as they held hands and then kissed slowly. The beach was so full of love that night that it didn't need to moon to shine.

Peace,
Jane

Ladie_Fair
09-26-2003, 08:52 PM
My guy and I were secretly seeing each other for a few months, alot of times we would go for long country drives, my favorite time was at night.One night sticks out in my mind,when a deer , (a young Doe )stood by our car just grazing, she must have only been a few feet from us.she stayed the whole night while we watched her,and she payed no mind to us.even though my head lights put her on stage. under the stars in his arms, caressing my cheek.He told me he was Falling in love with me and that he didnt care what anyone thought, that he would follow me to the ends of the earth.and how he would never ever hurt me,nor let anyone else.And The My friends Melted my heart rite into a puddleHe always has a way with making me feel all warm and fuzzy inside like that. *wow*
He likes Goth and celtic,
so we were just kinda fanticing about what kind of wedding we would want> just fanticising< I knew I couldn't because im still married but separated. I told him it is impossible.I couldnt afford a divorce.
He looked into my eyes and said WE Are Running off Into The Dark Of The Night, To Have a Celtic Union, With Just The moon To Guid us And The stars as our Wittness.October 31st. midnight.
And we'r are still planning to. I have something very special to give him that night. >My heart<
Has anyone seen the movie -Braveheart-? where he and his g/f had a celtic union, by moonlight. *sigh* (so romantic);) ;) But Im like Kelley, it is hard for me to choose just one,we fall in love continusly everyday..........Another time was in the beginning of our relationship when I was having all my douts,he senced it,and pulled me close to him,onto his lap,not letting go of me ,and sang to me Truly,Madly,Deeply by (savage garden,) and again *Heart melts and flutters and does flip flops*also Send Me an Angel by (Real Life)Those 2 are marked our songs for sure.:p
He is my Angel for sure.

jeffy-weffy
09-26-2003, 10:01 PM
Just hearing my little lady giggle at all the goofy stuff I do to make her laugh and hug me really touches my heart. Especially knowing that I made her the happiest she has been in years.

Neo
09-27-2003, 09:04 PM
My OW, you know who you are, sits on my lap when I am feeling down and kisses me all over while holding me close to her. She also makes me my favorite meals and we fall asleep with her in my arms. We are also going into business together. Truly Madly Deeply, To The Moon And Back, Send Me An Angel, and Losing My Religion are our most romantic songs. Sometimes I hold her close and kiss her when I hear those play. We also cook together, as well as play games together. Video games or board games, doesn't matter. We also go on country drives on the weekends. We just enjoy life with each other. And my favorite song to sing to my lady is

SLEPT SO LONG

Walking
Waiting
Alone without a care
Hoping
Hating
Things I can't bear

Did you think it's cool
To walk right up
And take my life
And feck it up
Well did you?

I see hell in your eyes
Taken in by surprise
Touching you makes me feel alive
Touching you makes me die inside

Walking Waiting
Alone without a care
Hoping
Hating
Things I can't bear

Did you think it's cool
To walk right up
And take my life
And feck it up
Well did you?

I hate you

I see hell in your eyes
Taken in by surprise
Touching you makes me feel alive
Touching you makes me die inside

I've slept so long without you
It's tearing me apart too
How'd it get this far
Playing games with this old heart
I've killed a million petty souls
But I couldn't kill you

I've slept so long without you
I see hell in your eyes
Taken in by surprise
Touching you makes me feel alive
Touching you made me die inside

Cindy
10-01-2003, 12:26 PM
Greg took the day off yesterday to go fishing out of the Pacific Ocean. He had not been with us the night before as he had been busy working on his boat and preparing to leave.

So he arrived home last evening, put his boat away. He wasn't going to come down to our house though because getting up at three in the morning, driving to the beach, launching the boat and then fishing all day and driving home is a long, tiring day. No big deal.

But... he was hungry. Now comes the romantic part. I had baked a chicken yesterday for dinner. He decided to come down because maybe he could smell the chicken. Then he did homework with the kids.

We all went to bed. The romantic part is still coming... so he gets in bed with me. He pulled me to him and we were snuggling in bed. Suddenly I became aware of a gasoline smell and mentioned it to him. He sort of chuckled and said that he was wearing the shirt that he had on while he worked on the boat the night before - and worn fishing all day - and worn over to my home - and worn in my bed in my freakin blanket. He hadn't even showered!!

But he did take the shirt off and then we snuggled some more and fell asleep.

Love is grand.
Cindy


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