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Simple misunderstandings.

haunted
09-04-2003, 02:35 PM
Maybe my life is one big misunderstanding.

I keep trying to say the right things, but fall flat on my face.

I guess I'll just have to accept it and go on.

I don't want to leave here, but I almost feel ready to.
:(

Jannie
09-04-2003, 02:38 PM
Haunted, Im not sure what you did or if yu did anything...someone is griping or saying hurtful things, but don't worry.....I felt the same way when I first came on here and I know others did too. I felt like I didn't fit in and caught people talking about me on chat room behind my back when i came on as a different person one night....things like that. You just have to find someone you can talk to and make a few friends and keep posting and then before you know it, you fit in....maybe I don't still (LOL) but I don't care as much either....ILL BE YOUR FRIEND!!! Talk to me! :)

DONT LEAVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OKAY.

haunted
09-04-2003, 02:42 PM
But this is about SOMEBODY.

I am detecting a pattern and I just don't like it.

I try to say the right things to ones personally, but I can't seem to find the right things. I play by the rules, and still...


I know, it happens, but I hate thinking it's MY fault. I'll be better later.


Steve

Maria
09-04-2003, 02:46 PM
Hey, I don't want you to leave!!! Stay! I don't know what you said that have upset someone, but if your intentions were not to hurt, just say that!

Sometimes we have to accept that we can't please everyone, and sometimes the others are okay, but well, communication is difficult, so better give them some time...and if still it doesn't seem possible, it's okay, too, just find someone that can understand you.

http://www.smilies.org/basesmilies3/1034522173.gif

haunted
09-04-2003, 02:48 PM
It's okay, Maria. I won't leave. I understand the reasonings involved. But, I feel responsible. That's all.

I'm sorry to say anything, and I WON'T identify anyone.

Romial
09-04-2003, 02:48 PM
Just say what's on your mind and how you feel...the truth. I find that works out the best way if I do that. And if it doesn't, then you know not to waste your time on it anymore.

Maria
09-04-2003, 02:53 PM
Some of us have very intricate ways of analysing what people tell us...and often we are unable to understand what others really mean, especially on a screen interposed conversation...the best thing then is just to say you are sorry that you are not able to communicate your feelings well, that you'd like the person to believe you, and that is all you can do...http://www.smilies.org/basesmilies3/tristounet.gif

haunted
09-04-2003, 02:57 PM
It goes deeper, but the understanding I feel about it is genuine.

It will pass.

In this case, all you can do is wish the person the best and "move on."

Or as I said in my bio, "drift".


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