A big thank you for all who helped with my mini prob (see my bloke and his girlies)

Thank you all!
I really appreciate your advice with C. I am going to leave everything alone and give it up to God. I know that if I don't have C one day, I will always have Him!
Once again, tahnk you all. I know C and I care about each other deeply and why stress about something that doesn't exist? I love all you guys. Thank you for your words. They can be tough to hear sometimes, but I know they have to be said! Thanks

Randi,

Hope you can put it to rest and keep right on enjoying the great relationship you do have.

Jealousy is a tough creature, and an even harder one to overcome.
But you just have to find that difference between coming home to find your man in bed with another woman (extreme example), and not being there but picturing it happening as your gone!

Like emmie said in her one post, her mans jealousy was so bad that it ended the relationship. Not from her finding another like he had suspected, but by the constant pressure to HAVE to reassure all the time.

Trust is a tough thing to give as well, but one that is needed in a healthy relationship. If C was to go to work in a bar for instance, knowing that bars are pretty much made as pick up places, I'd like to think I could be trusting enough to not live in fear that some guy would steal her away from me (again extreme example).

After being hurt by one relationship I know its hard to not fear the same things happening over again. I just hope you can look at it as a clean slate and a whole new begining to work with.

To me it sounds like you've found an open, honest man thats going to stay that way.

Don