What Attracts Me Most In A Woman

I thought in all fairness, a thread for the men to post what they find most attactive in a woman might be beneficial too!
;)

Maybe us women can learn something?
Or do we already know what men prefer?

It will be interesting reading.

So, come on guys, tell us what you are attracted to most in a woman and not ONLY the physical stuff!
LOL
:p

Okay Sage.......for starters,

Intelligence is at the top of the list;

a bibliophile personality is also important.

And so is a pleasant, friendly personality.

And a nice, big wiiiiiiiide *** is something I just love. :p

Same for a busty bosom.

I could go on, but I'll stop for now. :)


P.S. Lucky for me, I found a wife with all of these
traits! :D

"brave enough"

Don't ever say that around me...*LOL*
Ho! Ho! Ho! Or else you'll get coal and a brain eating for Christmas. *LOL*

Physically? I have no specific attractions, physically. Why? Let me explain...

I am one to believe that the true beauty of a person begins first in one's heart. The warmth, the love that is contained there in? You can see it...you can feel it. The beauty from one's heart, that starts to work it's way outward...out...out...out to one's eyes...to one's smile. Thus...the beauty of a person goes from the inside and out. If you are beautiful on the inside? Then...you'll be beautiful on the outside. If you're a Hunchback....but have a beautiful heart? Well, the hunch won't matter at all...I won't notice it...I'll be too busy looking into your eyes and looking at your lips as you smile...as I kiss them...

I'm attracted to a sense of humor. I have a unique sense of humor. My humor is often a strange kind...unique. When someone laughs at my jokes...when someone "meshes" well with my sense of humor....it brings a smile to my lips...

A person who is not afraid to show thier intilligence...thier wit. A person I can hold a steady conversation with with about any subject. But yet, either of us can make a comment...share a very hearty laugh...and then...back to the subject at hand.

A person who is tender, who is sweet, compassionate and loving. One who is understanding...open minded. Someone who is not afraid to show love...who is not afraid to make a mistake...or look like an ***.

I live for three things in life:

A) To make people laugh.
B) To make people smile
C) To make people feel loved and cared about, because I TRULY do love them and care about them.

I look for someone, who lives for those things as well....who enjoys those things.

That, I must say...is, pretty much it.

*smiles*

~Dan

That was a really nice answer, Dan. :)

Awwwwwww....

*Blushes*...*smiles*

Jody, thank you so much...*Hugs*

Babes....in this case, I am glad I could prove you wrong in some aspects. *soft smiles* I am glad I am not a typical guy. I never wanted to be! Although, I must say....I think I am evolving into a woman. I mean, I probably have bigger "man breasts" than possibly some posters here...*LOL* Soooo, anyone wanna trade bra's? Hehe...

But seriously, thank you for your kind words, Babes...that meant alot to me. *smiles and hugs*

And Trish....*grins*...thank you for what you said. That also meant alot to me. Just remember, since I'm a big ole boy...there's plenty of me to go around. *LOL* And...as they say, "Once you go Dan, you'll never...go...back!" Hehe...And yes, that is to be said as I'm gyrating my hips. *lol* But, thank you for what you said...*smiles*...

And of course...*Hugs all around and smiles*

~Dan

I'd say a mind is most important to me. While I won't say that I don't mind admiring and exploring (if permitted) the curvy female trunk ;) I cannot imagine having a fulfilling relationship with a woman that has no brains. That would get boring really quickly.

I see LOTS of men around my age and younger who gravitate to the looks end of the spectrum, and then call me several months later and complain they're bored to no end.

Brains over looks, then if the two manage to congeal, WOW! :D

Originally posted by LadyInGreen817
How about light years ahead in the evolutionary department!!!

DanShues will you marry me???? My whip is bigger than Maria's!! hee hee hee

;)

Yvonne

*LOL* Ooooh, Kinky!

Double your pleasure...double your fun...
Double your whips...against my bum...
Can I marry, all of you?
And then each night I can have a very different...eh...crew!

*LOL* Whew!

Thank you Yvonne...*smiles and winks*....*LOL*

Originally posted by LadyInGreen817


oh, yeah, and I am a registered Democrat, to boot. ;)

Oh my, and I am still friends with you! See how open minded I am Yvonne? :D

Thanks Taurus...many of us hope that that is the case! Even those of us who do well in the looks department...I'd rather attract a guy for the long term with my mind rather than my bod any ol' day.

I like a classy woman. Don't like ****ty dress. Like a woman who looks good in a sweater. Not big busted but rather who looks cuddly. LIke a woman who smileas and ccan carry a converstaion. No dippy, giggly types. Must be loving!!! No cold fish!!! Must like a muscular physical guy ;) Hockey players like me are not slim and smooth. We are fast and agressive. ;) Must like to kiss!!! I am not great at many things but I love to kiss and have been told I am good at it :)

Let's see...I'm attracted to honesty, confidence, sense of humour, knowledge and acceptance of different cultures, a sense of adventure, intellect, a sweet smile, dark hair, dark eyes, and accents. And if she's attracted to me that's always a plus! :D

"Damn, Harrison,

I meet every single one of those criteria. If she ever dumps you, be sure to look me up, guy! hee hee hee

;)

oh, yeah, and I am a registered Democrat, to boot. ;)"
--- LadyInGreen817


Mmmm....Okay, Hot Stuff! I'll remember that!:D

Originally posted by babes66
That sounds just like my ex and I!;)
In fact, isnt that the guy ALL the beautiful intelligent sweet woemn here were married to?

LOL@Babes!!

Originally posted by perthguy
Come on people how often do you see a fat couch potato with no taste in (or sense of?) fashion and can't make an intelligent conversation, hates animals and kids and has poor hygeine and is chauvinistic 'matched up' with a sophisticaed, intelligent, sweet, fitness/health conscious that loves animals and never watched TV or reads a silly gossip magazine???

Whoa.......... mine too!! :D

OK, I gotta confess, he didn't hate animals.........

Originally posted by babes66
That sounds just like my ex and I!;)
In fact, isnt that the guy ALL the beautiful intelligent sweet woemn here were married to?

Yep add me to that list :D

Swan, are you following me? :p

Originally posted by babes66
That sounds just like my ex and I!;)
In fact, isnt that the guy ALL the beautiful intelligent sweet woemn here were married to?


Yup, sounds like 2 of my Ex husband's as well as well! ................ I 'ave always been stubborn (or possibly, just plain stupid) :( so had to repeat the mistake to truly learn the lesson LMAO

Will somebody please explain to me why a thread titled "What attracts me most in a woman" has 8 female respondents, and only 6 male respondents ?? :confused:

Where are all the eloquent Ageless men? :(

not sure if i can do eloquent, but i'll give it a try.. lol

what attracts me to a woman? well, theres a few select qualities i look for in a woman, but not all of them are "nesesities" .. its not that i'm not fussy about my tastes in women, in fact i've been told before i set my standards too high.. its just that there are quite a diverse range of things i like,

In a woman i like to see confidence, in everyday things, as well as in, um, more private issues..
She has to be intelligent. Without sounding big-headed, i'm not a stupid guy, i am fairly bright, some might even say intellectual, and i like a woman who can keep up with me in a conversation. If she's constantly asking me what the hell i'm talking about, it can kinda disrupt the flow of conversation.. y'know?

She has to have a good sense of humour.. i know this seems pretty mandatory for every guys perfect woman, but it has to be there. In fact i wouldnt say so much a good sense of humour, but a compatable sense of humour.. i have a kind of twisted / very british / sarcastic wit about me, many low-brow "beer & shaggin'" type comedys just dont interest me.. and ideally, she wont like them either..
which leads me nicely on to tastes.. she has to have similar tastes to me, in music and films. although not exactly the same. She has to have her own opinions formed herself, not because she's following some new fashion or whatever.. an independant thinker is a must.

The looks of my perfect woman arn't really all that important.. ideally she'll be of supermodel proportions, but i dont have any pre-defined preferences (although recently long legs have become a turning point here.. 36".. hmm... *drool*)
but if she's blonde, brunette, redhead, thay all have thier merits..
but if she's gorgeous, it always helps.. what i see as gorgeous, i cant really describe, it varies from face to face / body to body..
ideally a toned body, i used to think she had to be shorter than me, untill babes changed my mind.. and she has to have mid sized or smaller breasts. Huge breasts are no good to me, i only have small hands.. :D and allegedy nipple sensitivity decreases with a larger breast size.. and she has to be able to appreciate my nipple-work.. lol.

I dont find myself attracted to strangers very often, or if i am, its a purely physical, "if she offered" kind of lusty attraction (not that i lust after anyone else these days) but i prefer to know people before i develop any attachments to them.. see inside thier head sort of thing.. if theres nothing there, then theres nothing i'm interested in.

That pretty much wraps up women for me..

oh, and they have to be called "Babes"
:D

*LOL*

Good thing you added that last line, Streff.

I can just see it now, without that line, you're ostrisized from the commune!

*KATHUNK*

You can be anything you want babes.. just dont change :D

Dan: I had to save my skin, without that last line, they'd invite me to the commune, then hold it against me.. i'd never leave alive.. lol.

Originally posted by ~Streff~
Dan: I had to save my skin, without that last line, they'd invite me to the commune, then hold it against me.. i'd never leave alive.. lol.

Leaving would be the LAST thing on your mind...........

Btw, you definitely achieved eloquence! (And I'm not just saying that because you prefer smaller boobs)

Well, Babes...

As Mayor of the Commune...I say...

LET HIM EAT CA-

Eh, sorry, wrong line!

<b>*Ahem*</b>

I say, don't go too hard on him. Heh was trying to be honest and sweet, I am sure. I'm sure you can come up with some creative "soft punishments"...*LOL*

I have to say that nipples sensitivity has nothing to do with breast size...;)

Thanks Mother Nature for that!

Originally posted by Dan_Shues
Well, Babes...

As Mayor of the Commune...I say...

LET HIM EAT CA-

Eh, sorry, wrong line!

<b>*Ahem*</b>

I say, don't go too hard on him. Heh was trying to be honest and sweet, I am sure. I'm sure you can come up with some creative "soft punishments"...*LOL*

As the official Commune Dessert Chef, I don't know about that "let him eat cake" innuendo............ are you trying to imply that this constitutes punishment, hmmmm?

Originally posted by MariaLux
I have to say that nipples sensitivity has nothing to do with breast size...;)

Thanks Mother Nature for that!

I can atest the that!!! I love hard nipples!!! :D

Originally posted by Harrison
Okay Sage.......for starters,

Intelligence is at the top of the list;

a bibliophile personality is also important.

And so is a pleasant, friendly personality.

And a nice, big wiiiiiiiide *** is something I just love. :p

Same for a busty bosom.

I could go on, but I'll stop for now. :)


P.S. Lucky for me, I found a wife with all of these
traits! :D

OMG, this sounds JUST like me!:rolleyes:

Originally posted by ~Streff~
You can be anything you want babes.. just dont change :D

Dan: I had to save my skin, without that last line, they'd invite me to the commune, then hold it against me.. i'd never leave alive.. lol.
Um, we're standing right here. :p
<P>
I have DD breasts and ALOT of nipple sensitivity! Oh, you miss out....
ever make any homemade, rustic french bread?:rolleyes: :D

DAYYYYMMMNNN!!!

Originally posted by Joe
DAYYYYMMMNNN!!!

exactly!

For me there are so many different qualiites that attract me to a woman......I might sound shallow, but at least I'm being in honest in saying that physical attraction plays a part(by the way from what I've seen from the profiles the ladies here would definitely catch my eye),after all its what I see first.But that is just one level.....Personality and sense of humour are so crucial.Supermodel looks are all well and good but its whats deep down that counts....What I find most attractive is individuality......that certain something that makes a person stand out from the crowd....that X factor......This for me is the most attractive thing,but is also the most difficult to find.

I'm sure your bra wouln't make a difference babes, because you are stunning.By the way thanks for the warm welcome....and my accent is from the north of Ireland - like Liam Neeson's.

Originally posted by babes66
I'm "barely there":(
I'm away to slash my wrists now..........;)

Babes, you are so gorgeous, I'd swap chests with you any day.
Your pic reminds me of Chrissie Hynde and I love her!

I think regardelsss...to each HIS own every day.
....there is a saucer out there for every cup size.....

(should/could men be called "saucer"s? he he!)

xoxokerri (DD post baby, C before, wanna go back...)

Gotta agree witheverything Kerri says - you are gorgeous babes

Originally posted by babes66
I'm "barely there":(
I'm away to slash my wrists now..........;)

Awwww babes.. I'm barely there too.. but never had a complaint, and hey they're real! LOL :D

Originally posted by Kerri
Babes, you are so gorgeous, I'd swap chests with you any day.
Your pic reminds me of Chrissie Hynde and I love her!

I think regardelsss...to each HIS own every day.
....there is a saucer out there for every cup size.....

(should/could men be called "saucer"s? he he!)

xoxokerri (DD post baby, C before, wanna go back...)

I have thought the same thing Babes!
I love Chrissie Hynde too and you have much to be proud of!!

"Brass In Pocket" - Love that song!
I think it's my anthem right now.....

Love the "there is a saucer out there for every cup size" Kerri!
:p
Very true!

have had their moment in history yet? Have I missed the arrival?
Hadley

I think they haven't, but now that you mention it, I'm in doubt...