Hi everyone new chic and guy to site

Hi everyone! I'm new here. I'm 30 and my boyfriend is 19. He goes by Scheirer (also new here) if anyone read his post. Well, I met my true love at work. I'm a paid firefighter/emt and he is a volunteer. We met one year ago when he joined our fire department. He, along with everyone in my department, claimed he was crazy about me from the moment he saw me. At that time he was still in high school and figured it was just a crush. We became close friends (just friends because I told him I would not date anyone in high school) and over those eight months he never stopped having feelings for me. Every time I would work I would either hear from him or from one of the guys here that Dylan was crazy about me and would constantly talk about me. I have to admit, I had feelings for him but like I said I wouldn't do anything about since he was in high school. Well, he finally graduated and we got togther about 2 weeks later. We have now been together for 5 months and I am truly, 110% in love with him as he is with me. We were very good friends before we became a couple and he told me that he thinks he was in love with me before we became a couple. We both make each other very happy and he is definetly the love of my life. If anyone would like to respond with a comment about our relationship I would appreciate it. Thanks for reading. Jen

Welcome Jen and congratulations, my ym and I have a 30 year difference he is 23 I am 53. I still have trouble believing it is true, but he is the most wonderful man I have ever met. And you two, how great, he sounds like an articulate ym I enjoyed reading his post, I am happy you both are here, there are many wonderful people here that will love to comment on your relationship and give you support, this is a great group Take care hope to hear more from both of u, Gil

Well, as my mom would say, ask and you shall get it.

We asked for a happy story, Jen, and here you are. You had posted that before, hadn't you? I remember your story, maybe from Scheirer's post.

I would like to ask you why you both came to Ageless. Were you curious about other age gap relationships, did you have any doubts, and what has been your experience, do you feel that age plays a role in your relationship?

I'm a natural curious person! :) Anyway, welcome to you both!

Thanks to Gilraen and Maria Lux for replying. I'm glad there are a lot of other ow with ym. Yes I at times do have my doubts about our 11 year age difference. Mainly because I have concerns that in 10 years he won't find me attractive. But my hunny encourages me to never worry about it. So im getting a little better. One day I was searching and found this site. I started reading a lot of the posts and there seems to be great people on here. Hopefully I we'll get continued support and I would like to give some good advice in return. Take care everyone and we'll continue with our responses.

Hey!

It's a fellow poster from Picksburgh!

How are yuns doing?? *LOL*

Did you do your worsh on Sunday while watching the Stillers play?? *LOL*

Sorry...I'm actually in a suburb of Pittsburgh...*LOL*

Anyhoo...

Welcome ot the board, Jennie...

Remember something from a song....probably when you wake up in the morning and you think you look your worst? That's probably when he can't take his eyes off of you. There are those of us who can see natural beauty...

Trust him....he probably can see it as well...

*smiles*

~Dan

As far as your worries about whether he will find you attractive or not in ten, twenty or thirty years, first don't. Don't worry about whether he will find you attractive, worry about whether he will still love you and be in love with you. If he loves you and is in love with you, then I would bet heavily on him finding you attractive. How many couples go from being young and attractive to old and not so attractive. Don't those that remain in love remain attractive to each other.