journalist seeks help

I am a journalist writing a feature for the Independent on Sunday on what it's like for a man to date, live with or marry an older woman (minimum five years difference).

I would like to include two case studies and include the following information.

What are the advantages?
The disadvantages?
Any funny anecdotes that arise from the age difference such as he goes out on the razzle while she stays in to watch Coronation Street?
Any fears or anxieties such as the man fearing the wife is bound to die first?
Any sexual compatability issues?
How the couple met?
Any reservations on either side because of the age gap when they first met?
Any comments from family about the age gap?
Any differences in energy levels that arise from the age difference?
Was the issue of fertility an issue or did it have the potential to be?
Any other issues that have come up or that the couple feared might have been an issue?

Please e-mail ajdon@netcomuk.co.uk giving your name and contact number if you fit this criteria or know anyone that does and would be prepared to have your experiences included.

The bulk of the feature is my first-person experience but I need two short case studies. Would appreciate any help.

thanks
Andrew