sassy
12-18-2003, 05:48 PM
I would love to know about how many age gap relationships between younger men older women of 15 to 20 year age gap have lasted at least 10 years or more and what ages they were when they met and what ages they are now. It would be interesting to do a study on that. We are a small community here and it seems these relationships are finally starting to come into the norm. I came here 4 years ago because i was so attracted to a coworker 20 years my junior. We worked together up until this past September when he got a new job. I thought things were finally going to take a turn when he said he wanted to continue seeing me after he left working there but nothing. He has kept in touch with a fellow female coworker friend, just friends, but nothing with me. I called him 2 times seemed like he would like to get together but we didn't make specific plans. He said he works 7 days some weeks, said he'd call but didn't. I left him a voice message on his cell phone basically wondering why he's been ignoring me, thought we'd keep in touch, was hurt he calls others and never once called me. He called the girl at work the next week upset and told her about the call but nothing with me. I will not call again. I do not want any negative feedback here, i just wanted people to know the situation i'm in now. I must say it is harder to come here and read the posts now that he's gone. Regardless of what some people have said here befor, and you know who you are, we did have something very special and i will never forget him. Only when you experience this kind of attraction do you understand the specialness of it. Take care everyone