Another awful fight last night!

So, ym had to go out to Long Island after work, he was gonna take his guitar amp to some repair shop. He got home at 9. Things seemed fine, well as fine as they can be, and we ate dinner together. He did not like what I was watching on TV so he went to the bedroom and played on the computer. I had told him he could have the TV at 10 b/c I would probably go to bed. So at about 9:45 he comes back and says I think Im gonna go out, Mark and Jay are up the street having a beer and I think Im gonna go up there. I was like "What the F" I did not say that, I was pretty miffed but I just said ok. Then he said, "Do you mind?" and I said "Since when did it matter how I felt?" and HE WENT OFF. He said I was a nut, I destroyed everything, he wanted out of this madhouse, why did it matter if he went out if I was going to bed and ON AND ON and then he stormed out. I went on to bed trying to stay calm and for some reason he was home in like 30 minutes. He came in the bedroom and snatched his alarm clock and said, "I should not really give a F if you get up in the morning but set the other alarm clock b/c Im taking this one. And when are you leaving." I said probably end of April/end of May and he said "Good". And that is the last we spoke. Im not trying to imply that I always behave so "dignified" in a fight but Im just exhausted. This is what I have been dealing with for 2 years. This kind of nastiness. And I have spewed my share. Im just so tried of it. I really am not expecting for any new advice, the writing is on the wall, I just wanted to vent, my feeling were really hurt.

Georgia, I am so sorry you and your ym are having these problems. Sounds like you have made the right decision to move out of there. But, I know this must hurt you so much. So wanted you to know that I am thinking of you and sending you big (((((HUGS))))))

You know, I have started to wonder if this relationship is my reward for some of the crummy things I did in relationships when I was younger. You know, the old "What Goes Around, Comes Around" adage. Food for thought.

I was sorry to hear of your ectopic pregnancy. I had one many years ago, and had that fun trip to the emergency room for surgery, etc. Fortunately I was young enough to be up and around in 6 to 8 weeks.

When a relationship is coming apart things are going to happen almost daily as to what happened last night. It's time to be your own best friend and stop beating yourself up for the choices and mistakes you have made, you know? You need to go into survival mode until you are able to travel and high tail it out of there. Do what the doctors tell you to get better. Take brief walks when you are able. Take your focus OFF this YM because you are still looking for him to care in a way that you wish. It isn't going to happen.

Even though you are stuck there, start moving on mentally. He already has, ok? If he doesn't want to be around, let him go! You're better off chatting with some of us in the chat room for heavens sakes! :)

If you need to vent, vent! But if you're looking for answers...there usually aren't any. He's just checked out of this relationship and it's time for you to close the hotel.

Take good care, Georgia.

I second everything Bubblebee said. Just wanted to show my support and give you a cyber (((HUG))). I'm so sorry things are so awful for you right now, but brighter days are ahead. Just get yourself through this so you can move on and begin the healing process.

Poor thing! You will feel so much better when you are finally away from him. Is there some way you can leave now and find other digs temporarily?

Georgia, this man is just so rude! Don't take it anymore, as my friends said here, be your best friend and leave as soon as you can. You don't deserve this! :mad: