Im falling in love

Im 34 yrs old and I fell head over heals love at first with the most handsome charming mature guy I've ever met. We met two weeks ago and I've been in heaven ever since. There is one major problem he's only 19yrs old. I promise I only look 24yrs. old at the most and he feels the same way I do. We talk and text all day and are making plans to spend the summer together. I just need some honest but kind advice this is the first time I've felt this way!

anyone out there?

Hi Tippy, Welcome to Ageless. Congratulations on your happiness. I think no one has responded, because though you ask for advice.. you haven't really asked a question. :) So maybe people aren't sure what to say. Stick around though, there are many wonderful people here, and lots of threads to read about people who are in situations similar to yours. Please do post, and get involved. It's the best way to get to know people.

Edit.. sorry Nessa, we must have posted at the same time. :)

Sorry everyone this is my first time in a chat room and I don't know how it works. I guess I just wanted to know there were others out there in this situation and it feels good to know that there are. The question is really not a question but more of a statement. I just feel in my heart that it's going to work out between us and I trust and believe in what he says. The crazy part is I'm not afraid of being hurt with this guy because even if it doesn't work out I've always wanted to have these feelings for someone and I must say it feels GREAT!!!! Thanks so much for making me feel better!

Ah, ok.. no problem. This is a message board, unlike a chat room where you may get immediate responses. Not everyone is reading the same things here, so you may not get responses right away. I hope you will read some of the threads. You are not alone, and I'm sure you'll get some great information here.

what nice things you said. whats your situation?

Bleh... lol

I came to Ageless after ending a somewhat meaningless relationship with a younger man. I came with many questions, and much confusion about the whole older woman/younger man phenomenon that had been happening in my life. I lurked for a long time before I joined, and read a lot. I found many answers here, and much wisdom especially from the wonderful women here.. (no offense to the guys at all.. LOL, they are great too!).. so, I am single now.. but I am hooked, addicted, and stay here because of the people I found here.. so far, they haven't kicked me out yet! ;)

you seem so sweet heres my email travaramueed@hotmail.com anytime you want to talk and good-bye everyone ill be tomorrow

thanks Tippy. There is also a way to send private messages to people here, in case you do not want to have your email posted for the world to see. You can click on that person's name and it will take you to their profile where you can then send a PM (private message), or just beneath their post is a button you can click on to send PMs. Remember, anyone can see what is written here, just to let you know that. You have a good night.. I need to get to bed too! :eek:

Yes Tippy this is a message board, not chat.. but there is a chat room associated with this site where you can talk to people in real time.

I also came here because of an age gap relationship that didn't turn out and have been posting my brains out since August.. my profile says January because I deleted another profile of mine. I am not involved nor do I intend to be... but heck... I love it here.

So just post... you apparantly don't need advice but we DO need positive stories like yours and advice you could lend to others as we struggle through our difficulties, agegap, family, ex husbands... whatever.

Isn't it great that he makes you feel so alive.

Well, enjoy it...let it take you where it takes you and just be happy. although my criteria for dating a guy isn't age related, I only join because all the guys who were asking me out were young men. At first it was getting on my nerves, now I just accept that it is what it is and this site has helped me alot. I too am addicted, but more so, I found an understanding here about why ym seek ow.

So I'm happy that you're happy. The way the world is today, people need to feel and live happiness. I for one, enjoy the fact that you're happy.

Paris

This might help darling...I'm 34 and madly in love with a guy that's 22, whom I've known since he was 17.

19 is not that much different than 22.
If he's happy and you're happy than just cuddle lots and be happy together :)

Which is exactly what I plan on doing in the very near future. May 1st isn't so far away is it???

I am also madly in love with a 19 yr old guy. I am 30 and let me tell you what, this is the best relationship I have ever had. He makes me feel like a princess everyday. From what I have read, your guy seems to make you very happy. I know mine does. Good luck and follow your heart.!!!