Thread: Have you ladies always liked OM?

Kinda. All of my boyfriends have always been older but not like I have no. Me and my guy have a 21 year age gap. We were friends at first (through work) and after a night of drinking I guess he finally gave in and admitted to having feelings for me. I guess I always had those feelings too (we were very close friends and I loved him and cared about him but was involved with another guy who had my heart). My other boyfriends have been a few years older than me, the oldest was 10 years older when I was 19 and he was 29/30.

I do find some older men attractive and find myself more attracted to them now that I am with an OM. For me it's not so much the age as it is the person. I just happened to fall in love with a 45 year old man at the time.

I always found many older actors and musicians attractive, but never really thought about it in a real sense until I started working at the bar (mostly older, blue collar crowd, seeing people my own age in there was a rarity) and all these older construction workers started hitting on me, making me feel sexy when I never really did before. Loved it, and have never really looked at young guys quite the same since

I've had a thing for older guys since I was an adolescent. Well, even as a child I remember feeling "hearts in my eyes" for one of my parents' friends.

But that doesn't mean I don't find some guys my age attractive, or younger guys, or women for that matter...

I've always liked older guys, but had only dated in the range of my age to 10 years older. My boyfriend of 3.5 years is 19 years older than me.

I've always been attracted to older men. My first two boyfriends were within two years of me. My current boyfriend is 29 years older than me. Dating my age isn't out of the question, but there's a special flutter in my heart for older men <3

Nearly all of my relationships have been with older men but nothing even close to the age gap between me and my current partner now

I guess...when I was 3, I was going to marry The Lone Ranger (Clayton Moore) or Little Joe Cartwright (Michael Landon). :P

I'm just partial to guys. Old ones, young ones, my same age ones...it's not about the age. It's about a mindset, intellect and chemistry. I've seen some very attractive men who ruined their looks as soon as they opened their mouths, and have been very attracted to some men who weren't conventionally handsome but who were amazingly intelligent and with whom there was chemistry.

MM

I also liked "Ironsides" (Raymond Burr), John Gage (Randolph Mantooth), Jim Reed (Kent McCord), Paladin (Richard Boone) and Lucas McCain (Chuck Connors).

Sam Elliott, Sean Connery and Patrick Stewart are drop-dead sexy.

I guess it depends what you're looking for...the pattern *I* saw had nothing to do with older/younger men...what I saw is: although I'm willing to make an exception, I generally don't like blondes!

MM

I'll chime in for mine since she isn't on here (She classifies herself as the loaner type.).

She was just looking for one that sparked her attraction and interest. She wanted a white-boy and I fit what she was looking for (She happens to be black.).

I was looking for someone of another ethnic origin myself (My preference, but not required. Me likes the more exotic women. ) but I was not looking for someone that young. At first I had some second thoughts and I finally just said to myself "**** it. Roll the dice, see what happens."

It was a little bit more difficult to believe she was serious at first. But then she let me know sternly that she was very serious about this. Thankfully I have a friend who was in the same situation as her so I had some knowledge that sometimes you find one that really is serious. I just figured I'd find some young thing close to my age or something, embrace the odds right?

She is a sapiosexual (Attraction to smart people.). She likes to think I'm a literal genius but I prefer to deny that. lol

I guess looking younger than I really am has a perk or two. I'm 28 she was 18 at the time (now 19). She skateboards regularly, a gamer, tomboy, plays drums, likes rustic houses, is intelligent and is attending college as a Computer Engineering major. I could go on but I'm already getting side tracked I think.

I also insist that before things get crazy that she graduate college and get her career going. She wants to graduate early. So far she seems to be doing well.

As for me, well I'm now a Machine Tool Technology major (Machine Shop). I like it, I get to make stuff. I currently with two trimesters under my belt have a cumulative 4.0 GPA (95 average). Theory being my highest grade (96 Average).

She never made much of a deal about age. I think she was just in search of a guy that she could be attracted to. So far so good.

Originally Posted by thatoneperson

I've always been attracted to older men. My first two boyfriends were within two years of me. My current boyfriend is 29 years older than me. Dating my age isn't out of the question, but there's a special flutter in my heart for older men <3

SAME! I suppose I've just always related to people older than me much better than people my age. I still don't feel like I fit in with my peers, although it has evened out a lot now that i'm in my 20s.
But the biggest thing is, now that i know how good it is to be in a relationship with an OM I don't really give a flying rats tail for most guys my age- they just dont' seem to know what to do with me, and I don't know what to do with them. I don't have the patience for them. I'm too jaded to be comfortable around starry-eyed, ambitious young men. [don't get me wrong, ambition is HUGE]

Anyhow, now, if I do notice a man, i've been noticing nowadays they're usually 40 or up. :P

Hey, I guess I am sapiosexual too!
Sounds kinky!