He and I have already agreed never to appear on a TV show and we're not yet married, but his youngest child is actually 6 years olds than I am and both of his children live way in the north. She stayed with us for a month or two and we got on very well (as you might imagine). Even if he and I marry, it wouldn't automatically make me step-mom and that may be for the best. If there were a way to answer questions for a documentary, I would gladly do so, but I couldn't actually appear on one.