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Reply With QuoteImagining exactly the person you want will work for you sooner or later. Start meeting a lot of people and just be casual. That usually worked for me in the past.
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Neophyte
How does one go about seeking a relationship with a woman significantly older than himself. I find older women more attractive, attentive, grounded,mature and easier to talk to. All desirable traits in a partner, but I just don't see these qualities in many women close to my age but I don't how to go about meeting people. Any suggestions maybe stories about how you and your partner met
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Neophyte
Imagining exactly the person you want will work for you sooner or later. Start meeting a lot of people and just be casual. That usually worked for me in the past.
Senior Member
Same way you meet anyone else really. Go out or hit the dating sites. Some sites allow you to set the age parametres you are wanting so you can see upfront the women who are interested in younger men.
Senior Member
Originally Posted by nmccay2319
Yes, I think many people find their partners when not deliberately looking at all. When Ann and I first met (waiting for a shuttle bus at a folk music festival) neither of us meant to meet someone, but we did, and that was 26 years ago now.
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Do not set any age requirement. Older women are like any other women, some are bitter witches who never matured. Others are angels that came from the heavers to be your life long companion. Others are in between. Ditto with younger women. Keep your mind and heart open, and put yourself out there. IMHO dating sites are a bit artificial, you may set requirements, and someone may meet them all, but you do not click, yet you may click with a person you would not have anticipated.
You know it's love when the pain of being apart is greater than the pain of being together.
Senior Member
They are artificial and cynical mostly full of fakes. But at the same time if you are careful it's an avenue to find someone. I'm not sure if specifically targeting a quality is wise anyway. I may say my type is a tall, curvy red head but if a short skinny brunette came along and we hit it off I wouldn't walk away.
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Look around while at events or places you like, more likely to find more in common. Don't really set an "age". Hunny and I were good friends in an an MMORPG for a while. This led to that and bang! I think we have something here!
Meeting was great. Have much more in common than not in common, even ended up being each other's type in RL physical appearance. The decision to be a pair was over 5 years ago and still we are attached to each other. : 3
Good Luck Dude!
............Unexpected pleasures are sweetest
Mark's girl
There are many ways, as others have said. I find that online dating is a good way as you can set age limits and write in your profile if you are interested in older women. There are sites for age gaps. Are you religious, hobbies, etc? There are all kinds of sites you can try both free and for a fee that are good (now there are also apps I'm sure).
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