Hi I'm new here. This is my first post. I am seeking some support from people in similar situations as me. Well me and my OM have been going out for about a year. We are 25 years apart. I am 22 and he is 47. We met online a year ago. We were supposed to meet up just for sex and have a one night stand. I really wasn't expecting to hear from him ever again. But he kept wanting to see me more. We get along great and we have great chemistry and I have become attached to him. He has helped me in so many ways. I've come such a long way since a year ago, thanks to him. His knowledge and intellect and maturity are a plus that I just couldn't find in someone my own age. I would have never seen this ever happening to me a year ago. Surely I wouldn't actively seek out someone 25 years older than me. I would rather it be 10 or 15. That's nothing. But I really do like him and I like what we have together. It's starting to get more serious and I'm starting to think about the future. How he will be old before me. BUt there are no guarantees in a future that is so uncertain. I could even die before him or go and marry someone my own age who becomes terminally ill and dies early. So why should I worry about that....if he dies, he dies. Might as well enjoy what we have together while it lasts....How do you feel about that?