What a cool statement. You are so right.
But, like you, I of course prefer to think for myself.
Before I had read all these statements I did not realize that serious marriage problemes were the issue here. In that case I can say from my own life experience that when I was in a marriage that .......how do I phrase it politically correct......did not do me good, I had the habit of focusing on the less important problems of mine so that I did not have to face my real issues of that marriage.