
Originally Posted by
luneib
That guy I dated I never had sex with, I didn't want it to get to that point since he wanted someone younger for a ltr, why get myself in that situation. But when I was in longer term relationships, yes, the sex came into play, and sometimes those relationships did not work out. I don't think it's because of the sex, it's just that the two of us were so different, or the guy was less mature and didn't know how to get in touch with his feelings.
It is a bit baffling why a guy would sleep with someone and then just be able to say, oh, I'm not ready for a relationship yet, or....I just don't feel the same way you do. It happens all too often.