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Thread: After a while...

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    After a while...

    After a while, you stop thinking that this age gap adventure is just a fling.
    After a while, people who know you, stop telling you that an AGR is a bad idea.
    After a while, you realize that people are not staring at you two everywhere you go... or if they do, you do not give a fig.
    After a while, your children are cool with your choice of partner.
    After a while, whoever needed maturing, matures, and whoever needed to take him/herself less seriously finally learns his/her lesson.
    After a while, you forget there is even an age gap.
    After a while, you realize you are even more in love than when you started your relationship.
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    You know it's love when the pain of being apart is greater than the pain of being together.

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    No doubt, but I'm gonna need a little more time before most of them ring true for me.
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    yup.........
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    Smile Yes - my view

    After a while, I stopped thinking that this age gap adventure is just a fling, but due to the gap I sometime think how long time we will be together. We get married in June.
    After a while, people who know me, has stopped telling me that I have a toy boy
    After a while, I realize that people are still staring at you two (particular when kissing in public),I do not give a fig.
    After a while, my children are cool with my choice of partner.
    After a while, we are developing well together.
    After a while, you forget there is even an age gap ( well definitely shows in the bedroom)
    After a while, I realize I am even more in love than when we started the relationship
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    Excellent SLK and very true.
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    I love the posts annt and kitties
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    Wink The dress code!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by swirlingnurse View Post
    I love the posts annt and kitties
    Thanks, I should have added. After a while, we still debate my dress, he wants me to dress young particular when we are with his friends. I think it is a bid too much (and sexy), but……..
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    "After a while" should be "i never cared what others thought in the first place"

    Easier said than done... been there done that myself... but pointing it out anyway for humor purposes

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    After a while, he's no longer a Very young man! I was so happy to share my boyfriend's 26th birthday with him today, and we celebrate 18 months together on Monday. We just seem to get closer and happier and fonder of each other and look back at past arguments with laughter.

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    Quote Originally Posted by annt View Post
    Thanks, I should have added. After a while, we still debate my dress, he wants me to dress young particular when we are with his friends. I think it is a bid too much (and sexy), but……..
    If you have the body, go for it!
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    You know it's love when the pain of being apart is greater than the pain of being together.

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    Yahh

    Quote Originally Posted by SheLikesKitties View Post
    If you have the body, go for it!
    Ha, ha...I know it is all in the mind!! No, I am joking. It is different today than years ago. Today the girls of the age of my VYM really show off, it is not been seen as degrades of women among them on the contrary, it is somewhat the power. I am now good friends with two ‘girls’ and we often meet also to worm up before a party where we dress up (tight, short, glittery and very high heels!!) for our self and to look inviting for our men at the party…..nice to be there, never tried it before!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by gnothiseauton View Post
    After a while, he's no longer a Very young man! I was so happy to share my boyfriend's 26th birthday with him today, and we celebrate 18 months together on Monday. We just seem to get closer and happier and fonder of each other and look back at past arguments with laughter.
    exactly, same for me, Kevin who is (gladly)no longer my vym. We celebrated together his 28th bd in march, and are happier and fonder, and we looked back that day and laughed about our 'prill' times,, when we started dating in 2008, he was 21 and i saw Sarah.
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    After a While...

    problems in the relationship no longer terrify you because you fear it is the other shoe finally about to drop, but you accept them, instead, as opportunities to strengthen the relationship.

    and...

    After a While...

    you accept that all relationships are subject to change at any point in time and you make peace with that vulnerability and enjoy the relationship without expectation but the hope of a lifelong love.
    there before the threshold, I saw a brighter world beyond myself

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    Quote Originally Posted by Angel View Post
    After a While...

    problems in the relationship no longer terrify you because you fear it is the other shoe finally about to drop.
    This was true for me for years!
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    You know it's love when the pain of being apart is greater than the pain of being together.

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    Really positive and full of hope for future, Very amazing. I too believe that good things start to happen after a while.

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