It's our inner "fix it" kicking in. That's a toughie, but it can be overcome. I LOVE my job and the staff I work with. The grumpy guy is doing well since his hospital stay (for depression), but I'm in a weird place place with our relationship. As much as I love my job, a couple of things happened that made it a tough day at work. I needed to be together and talk to him, and I can't. His 16 y/o son is with him tonight. The grumpy guy and his ex wife don't keep to a parenting schedule, their sons come and go as they please, and when the boys are there, I can't be. This is something I need to talk to him about, and I don't know how to do it.