All the new members

[MerAlove23]

I want to Welcome all of you to Ageless.... whatever brought you here I'm glad it did!!! I do hope you get out of it what you were looking for...

Also Check out the other forums... we have more than just age gap advice..... it's a great community so why not involve yourself some more !!

I hope to see more of you!!

Meredith

 

[cowgirl_1986]

Thanks

Thanks so much for the welcome and being a new member myself I can say that we are finding just what we are looking for. It's a great place to come for support and just to talk and share our thoughs and feelings.
By the way I see something at the bottom of your post... new baby? Congrats!!!

 

[MerAlove23]

Thats so wonderful to hear i'm glad you are getting what you need and I hope to see you stick around.....

YEs I got a beautiful baby boy!!

 

[KRE22]

I'm so happy and relieved to see that there are other people going through what I am going through. When I was researching "May-December" relationships, I mostly found stuff on Hollywood celebrities and unhelpful articles that were called something like "the biological attraction of may december relationships: why older men are attracted to younger women." They were all about the older man's inherent need to "spread his seed." Blah blah blah. I'm just glad to find real people who are willing to share their real experiences in age-gap relationships.
Thank goodness!!!!!!

 

[CR5127]

Thank You

Thank you for the welcome. It is always so hard to explain why I am atttracted to OMs...but it is WONDEFUL to find other women like me!

CR

PS If any of you are in NJ or NYC please contact me!

 

[SantaBaby]

CR5127

Hello Welcome
I am in NJ ! I am 32 dating my OM, 53. We have a wonderful relationship.
I am head over heels for this man!!!!

 

[MerAlove23]

CR5127

Hello Welcome
I am in NJ ! I am 32 dating my OM, 53. We have a wonderful relationship.
I am head over heels for this man!!!!

That is so great SantaBaby!! I'm truely happy for you BOTH!!

 

[lbays]

Older men, et al

You know, I have dated older men for the past ten years. By older, I mean I am 46 and he is 57, for instance; or, I was 40 and he was 59, as another example. I broke up with the first guy because he kept treating me like his daughter instead of his partner. He had to take charge and he give me unsolicited suggestions about how I should do things. I was disappointed that I ended up feeling compelled to break up with him because I was attracted to him and I am tired of trying to find the right partner. I also noticed that some older men are so desparate to secure a relationship that they lie and manipulate and rush things to get a woman locked in somehow. One guy lied to me about whether my son would have some space of his own in his house if I were to move in with him. Once I got there and he thought he "had" me, he started to back-pedal on his promise when I tried to decorate a room for my son. I realized what he was doing and called the movers the very next day. I moved out. Another guy presented me with the idea of a pre-nuputial agreement when we were still in the beginnings of getting to know each other. He said he was pushing 60 (yrs old) and it was important to him that he have a relationship in the next year. He found it stressful to keep dating strangers. I would have to agree with him there but I don't care how old you are, I don't think you can rush a relationship - regardless of age. So, tell me what you think about the older men issue. I am very attracted to older men and I like the fact that they are established in their careers and financially stable. I like their wisdom. I like their intelligence. I don't like the controlling behavior, or the "rushing" of the relationship, or the manipulation to get one (i.e. a relationship).

The Bays Girl

 

[CarolinaGirl]

Thanks

Thanks for the welcome. I am so glad to find a site that I can relate to and seek advice and share my experience. I am new to being in an OM/YW relationship and I am pleased to have made this wonderful discovery.

 

[Earth]

I am 18 and my Beautiful Love is 47...

He is the most Beautiful person I know. He's just simply wonderful and I am in Love with him. But (of course) there are complications. I mean we both care about each other, but there are obstacles. I love him so much! He and I have been together for almost a year now and I am very grateful that I have someone so special in my life. When I think of him "wow!" comes to mind. Everyday, from our first date, I have smiled because of him, everyday. I love him with all my heart and there are so many things I would like to discuss with him but I don't want to scare him off...

I need help, I love him

 

[Scott]

Om/yw

Afternnon,
after cruising this site for a couple of days, taking a leap of faith and joining this conversation. I appreciate the "Welcome", much, and the openess in sharing points of view.
I was in a relationship for 6 yrs with a YW, by 24 yrs., who moved East over 2 1/2 yrs ago. Thoroughly enjoyed each others company, and wish we had made different choices, but not so.
Would welcome another relationship if presented.
Thanks, Scott

 

[SummerBob]

RE all new members

I'm not exactly "new", but relatively so, having postged 40 messages already (wow, I can hardly beleive it!).

I was researching "May-December" relationships, I mostly found stuff on Hollywood celebrities and unhelpful articles that were called something like "the biological attraction of may december relationships:

I fully relate to you, KRE22. When I did a Yahoo search on "age difference", all I found was a bunch of porn web sites, or "advice" columnists similar to the ones in the tabloids, who are *absolutely* hostile to this relationship, or "government studies" on older men who "seek young girls" in third world countries, with, no doubt, suggestions for legislation to curb such activity. If you can believe this, I even found a web site with an "acceptable age difference" calculator! You enter your age, and it calculates the oldest/youngest person you can "acceptably" date! What a crock!!!!

Back in the late 90s there was a BLOG put out by a girl calling herself "Ms. Kim", expressing her attraction to older men. Her guest book exploded with a firestorm of people responding to share their stories, inspire her, and encourage her that alot of other people have these relationships and relationship desires. Sadly, that web site is gone. Happily, I have found AgelessLove.com. This is the first site I've found since "Ms. Kim" that is truly sympathetic to people in or desiring these relationships. The people here are real and genuine. They are honest, when honesty is called for, but they express themselves with compassion and understanding. I hope, like me, you find what you're looking for here. Welcome aboard!

 

[lovefairy]

big thx!

Just wanted to give a big thx to ageless!!!!

It means so much to be able to talk to others sharing the same feelings, concerns, love and happiness. Having an OM/YW relationship can feel so lonely - and ageless provides me with strength and wisdom. Feel so LUCKY to have found this community on the web! Not easy to find

ME: 30
OM: 57

 

[Broken Smiles]

hi im new its very comforrting finding this site! im 22 and my babe is 39!

we love each other very much have been together 8months and just waiting for the perfect time to meet each others families they are aware of the situation but everytime a meet is on the cards i get cold feet!

anyway lovely to meet others in the same boat and look forward to many hours chatting

 

[Ariel22]

Thank You

Delete........

 

[In Your Eyes]

Thanks for the warm welcome. I think this website is wonderful. My boyfriend is 17 years older then me. My closest friends are very happy for me. My mother accepts it, but has her doubts and some of my other friends accept it but make it clear that they think it is odd. I have never been so happy in my whole life. My guy means the world to me. To me, age has always been just a number and it is good to find a community of people who feel the same way.

 

[babygirl2005]

Hi!!

Hi im new here. and this is my frist entry. my boyfriend is 43 and Im 24. and the frist 2 or 3 months were rough(we been dating for 9 months now) but im glad every thing is going smoothly for us now.

 

[winddancer70]

first post

This is my first post here also. I too am in love with an older man.he is 18 yrs older than me.I'm sure my daughter will not be happy.But for once in my life I'm truly happy.We have so much in common..We love each other alot. I'm 47 and he is 65..I'm happy to have found the forum...

 

[L J]

I am so, so happy to have found this site.

I am 19 and my BF is 39. I have absolutely no support system in my real life. My mother is shocked and not speaking to me, my father doesn't know yet, my friends tell me I'm "disgusting," and his friends look at me like I have a hidden ajenda (sp?).

This is the first time either of us has experienced real love, built on a foundation of friendship, trust, respect, and similar lifestyles and goals. I want to enjoy it, I want to savor every moment, I want to tell everyone I know how happy and in love I am, but they don't want to hear it...

I am so grateful for a place to come where I am allowed to be happy. =)

I am really looking foward to getting to know everyone here.

 

[greeneyedgirl]

I am so, so happy to have found this site.

I am 19 and my BF is 39. I have absolutely no support system in my real life. My mother is shocked and not speaking to me, my father doesn't know yet, my friends tell me I'm "disgusting," and his friends look at me like I have a hidden ajenda (sp?).

This is the first time either of us has experienced real love, built on a foundation of friendship, trust, respect, and similar lifestyles and goals. I want to enjoy it, I want to savor every moment, I want to tell everyone I know how happy and in love I am, but they don't want to hear it...

I am so grateful for a place to come where I am allowed to be happy. =)

I am really looking foward to getting to know everyone here.

welcome LJ. feel free to spill your guts here, lol, we're all here for each other.

btw, all thru highschool, my friends all called me LJ, lol. i even had it on my car tag
"1 LJ 1" for my last name and my d.o.b. january 1. nice to meet you, gal. and seems as tho we're neighbors, i'm in miss'ippi *waves*

enjoy your time here

Tracy