I would have never entertained it here is how it happend
I was a divorced 69 year old woman living in a condo, I have always worked out and did my best to stay youthful, but never presented myself to attract a younger man. I would have never entertained anyone more than 5 years younger at most. Then a young man moved in, he just purchased the condo and at first it was a hello here and there. Then he volunteered to help me with the groceries and as we got to know each other, he helped me with things around the house. He was always pleasant, never aggressively pursued me at first, was just a great guy. I then started taking him to dinner because he was so helpful, we became better friends. Eventually he took me to dinner on a saturday night as very special place, we enjoyed each others company along with dinner and drinks. We then kissed, it just happened and we ended up at my place for the evening. That was 2 years ago, he is now 32, I am now 71 and we have close to a 40 year age gap, he is 15 years younger than my daughter who was in initial shock when I told her. We moved in together within 2 weeks after that dinner, married 6 months later and the rest is history. We are both a very happy couple and never again would I put any age restrictions on myself. Anyway my point is, you need to be creative like my husband was and win her heart. Go to functions or places where older woman frequent and just be nice and be caring. Initially don't push it, start a friendship and then one thing can lead to another. Many woman are not open to this, so the best way to convince them is show you really care about them without being aggressive. Be helpful, go a mile out of your way.