Hi, I really don't know where to begin with this thread. Im seeking advice on my relationship with a very young man. I am 43yrs and he is 20yrs and we met online. What Im wondering is, have i lost my mind? I have dated younger men but have never dated anyone this young, or with such an age gap. He found me and had been relentlessly pursuing me for sometime before i started to see him differently. He has been very open with his feelings and has given me room to digest all of this. He has made me feel things i dont remember feeling, Im head over heels with him and its hard to believe he is only 20yrs. A part of me is so hesitant but the other part of me says why not. So, I know there are many threads in here on this issue but id like to hear some of the women that have had or are in a large gap relationship with a very young man. Im just wondering what is the invisable line of too young? and how do i know if i have crossed it. Any information would be appreciated. We live in different countries and he is coming to visit next month. Thank you in advance....